How to clear the IAS in first attempt..?

This is a good thing that you want to prepare for the IAS examination from your own. Don't worry about your preparation I’ll give you everything here. I am starting from the scratch and then opening the flow of strategy.

Your exam is I think in June, so you need to start your preparation from today. How I’ll tell you here. First, start your preparation for the mains and don't worry about pre. You can start your preparation for pre from April but in these three months fully dedicated yourself for your aim. You need to focus on a capability to taking the risk. Here risk in the form of other jobs. For example, if you are also prepared for SSC or banks or any other government jobs then left this for UPSC because if you fill other government jobs also then it will loose your focus which is important for your one-time goal which is IAS. You can start your preparation from today with these types of mindset. Before purchasing the book, before going to take advice for this and before anything you need to prepare your mind just like an officer. Here I want to go in deep where I would tell you first for tools for cracking this exam and then about opinion developing mindset with an officer mindset.

Tools- First of all, you need three books which will create your level above the other competitor. These three books are-

1.Polity (DD base), Introduction To The Constitution Of India

2.Economics ( Mishra and puri) Buy Indian Economy

3.History (Bipin Chandra)Buy History of Modern India

First, purchase these three books. These books will create a path of success for you, especially for IAS. So put your heart, mind and soul for completing these books for your future. First, read these books and revise it in every month because if you reading something then also there is a great chance that you forget what you read and if you revise something then you are fully aware of every provision, every law and some aspects of your economy growth along with history. Try to revise these three books at least one time in every month.

Except for these book you need two additional thing which makes your tool in this examination. The first one is NCERT ( the old one is best, New ones is also good) from 9th to 12. Take this and read it first from your own and the second one is Newspaper (The Hindu is best especially for the editorial part). These are the tools just like your equipment for this job.

How to read- Whenever you start your preparation and start reading anything then always use your inquisitiveness to know about thing along with developing Idea, It will help you a lot for answer writing. For example- In today's newspaper “The Hindu” Ms. Madhura and Sonika Gupta writing a long article about the “The One China Principle” which goes circulate around China, Taiwan together with Washington DC. The statement and argument dealing with all the thing which adhered with the Donald trump who gave to china to its supremacy and take one side decision without thinking about the Taiwan which wants some other thing from the President of US. Although I didn't read today's newspaper with focussed mind but here I would tell you that when you reading this during your preparation then think about the things don't read what Monika Gupta says or what Jairam Ramesh said you don't need to think with close mind unless you need to think about the aspect which is required for the US- china Relation ( only when you read this) you can think about things and take your opinion on the behalf of that. If you didn't know something then use your inquisitiveness to know about the political aspects or what is the impact of these things on population or our civil society. You are preparing for being an officer, so you need to be prepared always ethically defensible argument,which is a great need for the job of yours. So, always think after reading everything. during your study, if you think something is tough then give your more time to those particular topics or subjects. Only one thing you need to know that whatever your argument, whatever your decision, everything was helpful for everyone and everyone happy about it, if you are able to create something then this is going to be a better thing for society and its also open a chance for your selection. This is all about your mains. The thing I’ll discuss here is not only for the newspaper but also for the books I would tell you here. Just as you think for the people at the time of reading newspaper as you read your book. When you reading something from the books then try to know what was the reason behind everything for History, for Economy and for Polity, here you also need to know what is the reason behind each and every provision.

Prelims- You can start your preparation with the solve papers. Whatever you are reading notes, books left all this from half April. In April you need to solve question papers of prelims. For prelims take some 60–80 papers and finished them in 60 days. This is the thing required for cracking prelims because you should know everything which you read from Jan to march and you can easily use these things for prelims paper. It became quite easy for you. this is the thing you are required to cracking prelims. For the interview, we are talking about after mains.

Tips- here are some tips which you need during your preparation.

1.     Dont listen to anyone who becomes a hurdle in your path. There is some peoples in our society who would demotivate you. Don't listen to them because if someone tried his best but not success its doesn't mean you are going to fail in your path.

2.Avoid distraction- Avoid all types of distractions. Distractions in the form of Friends, family, girlfriend, boyfriend, Social media, relatives. Cut all of them. Here I didn't mean don't talk to anyone, These people are your support base you can't let anyone but if you can spend time with each and every person on every day then you didn’t left have much time for reading books and as all of you know books are needed our requisite attention, it takes time. You need to manage them with their required respective time.

3. Avoid Bad habits- If you are drinking or smoking then stop this if you are not able to do that then also use to decide a limit for that. Don't cross your limit. If someone comes near to you and says to you that don't do something which was against the nature then you can't stop them to say the “It's your choice” you can't say that because you are now going to be an officer and if you not then no one became an administrator and if not you then no one became an Administrator. So, Why we waste our time in these evil things and you also know that it’ll destroy you, So, why we need it. Hence left it right now.

4. Be social person- A social person is a person who thinks for the people. If you have something then you can give it to your society. You can take it as my example-In 2017 I turned to 22 but except this, I’ve something giving to you, You need something and I have something then what is the problem to share my knowledge to you, After succeeding yourself if you say just two words to me “Thank you” then in that particular moment I would think myself to Top of the world and believe me this is enough for me. I know something (not more than you) for preparing exams and I know the pain of the students who would put their heart mind and soul but except this not selected for the job and always face rejection and its not easy to face rejection courageously, It would happen because the people who would select became dead and not helping the people. I do not blame to everyone because they are also busy on some others work but they have better knowledge than anybody else. So, if you have something then give it to the society this is the quality of the social person. You connect with the people and communicate with them and ask them what problem they face, that'll help you for your examination. You can create more material for your mains through socialism and that is the quality which is needed for administrator.

5. Be happy- Always be happy with what you are doing. If someone trying to demotivate you then trick them back tell them that you are smarter than them from your word. And this is only possible if you are truly happy with your preparation. Always be inquisitive, be happy people yar because you guys are going to work for the people who need you unless you are not satisfying by doing your own work, how could they get satisfaction to getting work done by you. So think about that.

So these are the thing you required for your preparation and if there are yet another thing you want to discuss with me, you can ask it to me on FB for a smooth conversation. Otherwise, I think I’ll discuss everything which I had.

There are many ways to get rich, here are some of the best ones I have found:

Investing in money generating assets

Instead of investing your money in things like a car, a house or material goods, make your money work for you.

This is ultimately the way most rich people spend their money.

For further reading: Rich Dad Poor Dad - by Robert Kiyosaki & The 4-hour workweek - by Timothy Ferris.

Bring more value to the table

For the same reasons as above, invest in your own improvement so you can offer more value which brings more money!

Books, courses, coaching, training, seminars, can all be a great source of improvement!

Learn to sell

If you can sell you can sell anything at any price… or so the theory. In reality you will be able to sell more for a higher price and will be offered jobs left and right!

Build valuable relationships

The idea that you become the average of your 5 closest friends holds true and can be of great value.

Always build relationships with people on a higher level than you. Just know that you will have to give them some value in return, but there are always ways!

How to win friends & influence people - by Dale Carnegie is a great read to improve your ability in this!

Solve problems

Find a problem that needs solving. Look in areas you know of, such as hobbies of yours, courses you took, or generally what you would invest money in.

Then find a way to solve that problem by learning about it and becoming an expert yourself. This gives you experience in the field, stories to share, and allows you to tackle the problems directly!

Become an expert in everything finances

Most people don’t learn about money because they do not have any and it scares them every time they look in their bank account. Money should excite you not scare you!

Learn everything you can about it from how to invest to what you are paying and why you are paying for it. Control your money instead of letting it control you!

Get lucky

Find someone rich to marry or invest in you and just get a lucky break. This does happen, and if you rely on this you will have no responsibility to work for your money.

On the bad end of the stick, this is very unlikely to happen, you will live a life hoping to find someone rich and make them love you for money, which will ultimately result in you being pretty miserable and fake.

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Stop being less than you can be and reach your goals. Send me a message saying "Coaching" to work 1 to 1 with me. Lukas Schwekendiek

1.   To improve your concentration power.

Take a pen and remove the cap. Place the pen or hold it with your hand about 30cm away from your eyes. Stare at the tip of the pen. Don’t think about anything, just look at it. Initially, it will be difficult, thoughts will come to your mind and disturb you but practice this it will improve your concentration.

Practicing this exercise before doing any work which requires your full attention

 2. A tiny hack for overcoming negative thoughts.

When you obsessed with negative thoughts and couldn’t control them. Place a rubber around your wrist. Whenever a negative thought comes to your mind, snap that rubber as tough as you can. The pain will be conditioned to your subconscious mind linking with negative thoughts. Gradually by linking physical pain factor with negative thought on conditioning, our subconscious mind will be alerted and alarmed before stepping into negative move.

 3. Got a difficult problem, use your subconscious mind.

If anytime you encounter a problem you think is out of your reach or is a turn it over to your subconscious mind, just before sleeping tell yourself that you can solve this problem you have the knowledge required to do so and do it with full faith and you will get the positive results for sure.

4. Wake Up early in the Morning Every day without an Alarm clock.

Just before going to sleep, sit on your bed hold your pillow close and whisper (in its ears). Wake me up at—A.M.

Ex-wake me up at 5 AM.

Say this to your pillow at least 15 times. Surprisingly your eyes will automatically open at 5 AM or whatever time you told to your pillow.

It works for me Try it tonight, say the exact sentence “wake me up at 5 AM” see if it works

5. Force a smile.

When you woke up in the morning, go in front of the mirror and force yourself and smile around 10 seconds. It will make you feel more happy and positive for starting the day.

Thank you for reading :) 

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Can I learn life and people skills as quickly as possible..?

The first most thing I would like to tell you is

“CONGRATULATIONS AMIGO.. !!”.

Being said that self-realization of life’s situation is toughest part of living on Earth you made it so early. Some of our species are still in chaos at 40, 50, 60 so on and some quit their lives just in unbalanced decisions. And coming to your question,

·         Basic needs of life food (including some mineral water), shelter, clothes. However in 21st century of Anno Domino era other elements like internet, fashion, peer opinions , etc.. added to the list. Let the modern needs not affect your basic needs.

·         Don’t run behind people. Stay at your work, spend some time on your interests, accomplish your tasks efficiently - then people do follow you.

·         Life is all about living happily, please try to neglect comments, opinions, decisions of others on you.

·         Drink plenty of water. It has lot of impact on your body especially on your brain hence so your idea process.

·         You must have your emotions in your control but not in the control of your feelings and fears.

·         Having a love is not a bad idea. But one must be so matured to understand and treat another person. If you’re not yet in to it , then don’t try to enter that platform until your dreams are fulfilled and yes you are thirst of opp gen.

·         Respect others - max, expect from other - min.

·         It’s okay to be anger in certain situations. But step back, think for a second and then act.

·         Spend some time with children. We can learn lots and lots of things from them.

·         Have a dairy for what you’ve done yesterday and what you’re going to do for tomorrow. Reward yourself for any thing you’re success at.

·         Start your day with a smile. I look at mirror for 5 minutes doing some silly expressions and goes on laughing. Try it yourself. It brings a tremendous change in the rest of the day.

·         Please have a healthy food. You are what you eat.

·         Similar to your daily routine brushing, bathing, eating, breathing(lol), add physical exercise to your life menu. Exercise at least thrice a week spending 40–60 mins in a gym daily.

·         See good, listen good, speak good. (opp to don’t see bad, don’t listen bad, don’t speak bad.)

·         We’re — what we think. Since you’ve already decided to start living a meaningful life , you’re on it friend.

I think I’m done with some good points regarding living life. Of course not to disturb it and we’ve to be like “Life goes on”. And now coming to the skills, let me not give the commandments, I’ll explain my examples

·         At 20, I made two lists (or notes). One for my happiness and the other for my survival.

·         The first note included playing game, swimming,archery, gym, learning a another language, writing, diet maintenance, and so on I’m expanding it.

·         The other not included learning design tools (Photoshop, Illustrator, InDesign..) , web designing (HTML, CSS, JS,..) , Communication skills, etc.

·         My parents never told me to swim, hit the gym ,.. that’s okay none is perfect here.

·         I don’t blame my parents for not giving me comforts. They made my presence a possible.

So dude, I don’t suggest you to make two notes similar to mine but please know where you’re good at, where you can work for hours and hours without any pain or pressure, know where and how you can smile.

WE ARE JUST VISITORS OF EARTH. Let’s live happily and let’s leave happily.

Keep smiling...

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        Ma life taught to me so far...!!

1. Your TIME is precious don't waste it, once it will pass you will regret it. It's not elastic so use it wisely.
2. You are not a slave of your company, find some time for your parents. Because they are getting older day by day. So spend quality of time with them , do not rush for making millions n billions by ignoring your parents.
3. World is unkind place , no one is going to help you in your difficult time, Yea you heard right, so Kill your expectations.
4. Person who buttering his/her boss every time at work place will get more appraisal or promotion than a person who does hard work. No value for hard work in corporate world. Because some morons are on top level.
5. Don't tell your problem to anyone , no one is gonna solve it.
6. Don't discuss your personal life at workplace. By doing this you will embarrass yourself.
7. In love n relationship nowadays true feelings are very rare. Your BF/GF is not going to become your Husband/Wife. ( I am talking about majority) They will show their true colour . So don't take anything for granted.
8. Learn to say NO in your life.
9. Our passion is more valuable than Money.
10. At some point in your life you will realize your pet Dog is more trustworthy than your fast friend.
11. At workplace Mailing skill is more important than your core skill so learn it.
12. Our Emotions, Bonding and Sensitivity are diminishing in Digital world because we do everything by TEXT. Always make a call for good wishes or talk it feels so special believe me.
13. Always believe in God . He will help you in your bad days, keep patience.